Weekly Wishes #2

And it’s even been two weeks since my last weekly wishes!

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So here’s what I’m working on this week:
  • Cleaning, packing, and enjoying the family tomorrow.
  • Moving on Wednesday.
  • Unpacking and making my room somewhere I absolutely love to be.
  • Catching up with everyone that I’ve missed over the summer!

Have a wonderful week, all y’all. I’m looking forward to life settling down a little!

Where I’m Writing

Life has been busy lately, my friends.

I recently finished my internship, which was so great. I can’t say enough about the NYPA intern program.

diary of an intern

I wrote a lot of classic small-towny news stories, which I loved, like these:


In the meantime, I’ve been blogging. My posts lately have been a little travel-focused, like the keys to a great road trip, the ultimate cross-country train trip, and the thirty bajillion times I’ve gotten lost.

I would love to travel back to this bakery.

I would love to travel back to this bakery.

I guest posted for some bloggers I love:

  • Packing for college (BEN, READ THIS). Ironically, I’m currently in the middle of packing, again, so I can move, again. UGH. Kriselle is one of the cutest and most upbeat bloggers I know, so I encourage you to read all of her other posts as well!
  • An awesome (and easy) baked strawberry shortcake recipe. I made this all the time for the Boyfriend and I this summer! Katie is super sweet and funny and we have a lot in common, which is always nice to find.
  • My career center career comes to fruition in this post on what you should avoid in a resume, for Megan the Artistic Brunette. Her blog is very clean and adorable, and I love her inspiring posts–especially the travel ones.
I went on some picnics, too. Picnics are the best.

I went on some picnics, too. Picnics are the best.

The Prospect is a great college-admissions website where I’ve been a college writer for about six months now. College and high school students, go check it out.

The Torch, our school newspaper, is near and dear to my heart and I’m so excited to get back to making it great this fall. (Here’s something I wrote last fall about a student who is doing great artistic and Vincentian things!)

Since I’ve been a little light on content here lately, I encourage you to go ahead and check out some of my other writing!

(Also, follow me on Twitter if you don’t already. I’ve been posting all kinds of great articles on there.)

The Keys To The Road Trip Of Your Dreams

 Tips for the ultimate

I’ve taken a lot of road trips over the years, from the cross-country journeys with my family to traveling all over Pennsylvania to see the Boyfriend in band events to our recent foray from New York City to the Poconos to Buffalo. Road trips can be stressful, especially when the point is to get somewhere else, but they can also be a lot of fun. Without further ado, these are my top three pieces of advice as you plan a road trip. 

1. Bring snacks.

Let me illustrate this with a story.

Once upon a time (okay, last Christmas) the Boyfriend let the battery in the car die twice because packing his dorm room took forever because he wasn’t ready at all and because he didn’t take my packing advice and because he needed to be social and talk to all of his friends—and if you know him, you know he is friends with literally everyone, including every hairstylist at SuperCuts, the 8-year-old my sister babysits, and the guys behind the counter at Dunkin.

I was really upset by this, because I place a high value on planning and organization and I do NOT “just wing it” unless I specifically have pre-planned to wing it. But the real reason I got so upset? 


And you know why he didn’t handle it well?

Hanxiety. We are one heck of a pair, let me tell you.

Hours later, when we finally got the car jumped, he took me to Waffle House and everything magically improved.

Snacks are essential on road trips, for when you can’t find anywhere to eat, or you need to stay awake, or hanger/hanxiety is kicking in. My personal favorites are Chex Mix and gummy worms, which I don’t normally eat, so they’re kind of my road trip treat.

2. Pre-map your route.

Unless the purpose of the road trip is to get lost, map out everything before you leave, whether that’s on a paper map or on your phone or GPS.

I have trouble reading maps backward, so I always like to save directions for both ways.

Especially when I’m driving alone, I like to have the directions all set in my head beforehand. And, even when you don’t expect it, like in my hometown just 90 minutes from Manhattan, you might not have a signal.

3. Give yourself plenty of time, and enjoy the journey.

No one is going to have fun if you’re trying to “make time” to your destination. I have been on too many road trips with the Boyfriend’s family to adapt this style of travel.

Instead, take your time. Leave early. Enjoy the open road. Take that extra-long detour around Scranton, because really, it’s a lot more beautiful and you’re not missing anything.

 Also, there’s so much to stop and see.

The United States is stuffed full of things to stop and see, both in terms of natural beauty and roadside attractions. 

I, for one, get a kick out of random sights no one has ever heard of, like the Molly Brown House, Grey Towers (spoiler, I used to work there), or the largest food festival in the USA. Make time to stop in random places and enjoy that kind of thing.

Also, a few weeks ago we pulled into a town (which was pretty cute) completely on a whim and stopped at a random diner and, my friends, it was the holy grail of diners. You just might get lucky, or at least you’ll have a good story.


Useful travel links:

Weekly Wishes #1

Guys, I had a whole book review I wanted to post and…it just isn’t happening. So I gave myself permission to write a list instead. #selflove.


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So here are my wishes for this week:
  • To finish my internship strong tomorrow. I CANNOT BELIEVE it’s over and my heart is breaking a little bit. I love EA, the Advertiser, NYPA, my coworkers, and most of all the Boyfriend and now I have to say goodbye.
  • To get efficiently packed and moved back into my parents’ house. And then to efficiently pack and move to Queens. Gah.
  • To write–including a blog post for Wednesday and a piece for The Prospect for Sunday–and be fulfilled, not stressed. (Note to self: also update Career Peer blog.)
  • To continue to organize the Torch so we can have a fantastically strong year next year.

The Ultimate Cross-Country Train Adventure

I love trains. 

Grand Central Terminal

Grand Central Terminal

I mostly take Metro-North from New York City—where the hustle and bustle of Grand Central and and picking up a Zaro’s pastry for the ride is a trip unto itself—up to the Hudson Valley, where my family picks me up, and the ride is the best. I love getting a window seat on the river side and watching tunnels turn into Harlem turn into mountains turn into West Point. I also love the pricing, the people-watching, and the anonymity. 

Train journeys always have a certain old-fashioned appeal to them, don’t you think? As if you might be on the Orient Express or something.

One of these days, I want to take a train trip across the country. I’ve even got it all planned out. It’ll be the ultimate road trip.

We’ll start in New York and go directly to Chicago, a one-night segment. From there we’ll spend two nights going from Chicago to Seattle, passing through the Twin Cities and Montana on the way, and then from Seattle down through Portland, Sacramento, and San Francisco to LA

From LA it’s on to NOLA, via Anaheim, Tucson, San Antonio, and Houston. Here, there’s an awkward Amtrak scheduling bump, where you’re forced to spend the night in New Orleans.

After that, we’ll head on the next morning back to New York, with stops in Atlanta, Charlotte, DC, and Philadelphia.

The total trip, via Amtrak, will be 8 nights (if we do it all in one shot) and five segments (an Amtrak segment is any time you disembark and change trains). The appropriate ticket covers 15 days and 8 segments (an extra week of travel, with three extra stops, if we choose) and costs $449.

We like travel, we’re easy-going, we know people in at least five of these cities (hello, tour guides and showers), and we gotta get this done while we’re still young and stupid.


Inspired by the Daily Post.


Check out this Amtrak writer-in-residence program though! So cool!

8 Things You Didn’t Know About Polo

One of the reasons I like journalism is you get to know a whole lot of cool facts about a whole bunch of stuff you never, ever would have thought about otherwise.

Lately, I’ve devoted some time to learning the basics of polo, in preparation for the Knox Memorial Cup event here in EA, which I covered for the paper.

I doubt many people know anything about polo—I certainly didn’t, except that the English princes play it. So here are a few facts to help you look tres posh if you ever attend a match.


The field is ginormous

It really is. It’s so large. It’s the area of nine football fields. They cover a lot of ground in polo.


It takes more than one pony

A serious polo player has eight to ten ponies. And really, with a sport this involved, it’s kind of in for a penny, in for a pound, in my book, because it’s impossible to play with fewer than two ponies. The ponies may play a maximum of two non-consecutive chukkers per match, which means that you need two for a four-chukker match (quite short) and three or four for a standard match.


 Ponies are horses

Polo ponies are only called that because it’s traditional…they’re actually just horses, usually Thoroughbreds or Thoroughbred crosses.


Argentina is the best

This one is pretty straightforward. Argentina, homeland of the pope and alfajore cookies.


The periods are called chukkers

Fun, right? This is a word that’s carried over from the Persian origins of the sport.


Even the AP stylebook isn’t sure how to handle it

And we all know the stylebook has rules for everything (Internet, always with a capital I, anyone?). However, not even the special sports section contains much about polo.


The positions and players go by numbers

Like any sport, the players are identified by the numbers on their jerseys, but instead of being chosen, the number represents what position they’re playing. Usually, number three is the strongest player and the “coach” figure.


OLYMPUS DIGITAL CAMERAOften amateur and professional players mix

It’s not unusual for a wealthy man (or woman), known as a patron, to pay to put together a team. The team’s ranking, so to speak, is calculated by the goal handicaps of each player added together, so an amateur or two with a couple of professionals can put together a decent team.

Diary of an Intern: Roycroft Festival Weekend

diary of an intern

A few weeks ago, East Aurora celebrated.

I come from a small town that knows how to have weekend festivals (hey, Milford. Miss ya.), but we’ve got nothing on East Aurora when it comes to community and getting involved.

OLYMPUS DIGITAL CAMERAMy first stop was the Baker United Methodist Church strawberry festival/jumble sale. I LOVE Methodism and “jumble sales” (we don’t have that concept in PA…but I like it!), so this was great.

OLYMPUS DIGITAL CAMERAWe got a pretty bangin’ strawberry shortcake with fresh berries, homemade biscuits and homemade whipped cream. Mmmm.



Then we headed on down to Parkdale Elementary for the Roycroft artisan exhibit, which also had food stands and live music. My intern salary means I’m not really in the market for any Roycroft art, but it was fun to wander around.


Then it was time for a picnic, followed by biking to the middle school for more art.


How talented are these people? I wish I could paint.

Across the street was another festival/sale at the Roycroft campus.


It was another happening weekend in East Aurora. I’m headed to the reunion on Friday and, of course, the Sidewalk Sale this weekend–any other recommendations, EAers?